I so wish I could say that Zippy and I are well on our way to training for agility, but I can't. My husband does not want him in the house. He wants him gone. Zippy has been just fine, but my husband closed his mind right after "the bite."
I fought bitterly to keep him, but it's either the husband or the dog. Tough decision...trust me. I am a DOG person. I do not give up on dogs. I just don't. To do so goes against every grain. I am extremely peevish about the whole thing. Extremely. I am also very sad because Zippy truly is a sweetheart. He has some annoying habits (like ripping apart every single dog toy) but otherwise he's a very good dog. The girls just LOVE him. They grab him to hug him and he doesn't bite or nip at them. Honestly, I think he's an awesome fit for the family, but husband does not.
We actually got Zippy under the premise that we would foster him for my friend (she has about 15 dogs at her house right now and needed the space freed up!). Eventually I figured we'd be keeping him. Not. So my friend is going to put him up for adoption after all and hopefully he'll go to a great home. I personally think he's in one right now, but I must give up on that.
So, husband is now opened up to the idea of getting a puppy from the litter of Border/Staffy's that were born about 3 weeks ago. I reminded him that puppies can and do nip...will he want to get rid of this pup too?? I reminded him that dogs are NOT disposable and any puppy that comes into this house STAYS in this house. He's on board, so we'll see how it all pans out. I know I'll be the one responsible for everything with the new pup, and I'm OK with that.
Just wish Zippy was gonna stay too. He's a sweet, loving dog who just wants to please.
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Dear Gawd*#! it can be so hard to mesh dogs and kids (and husbands). I've been there. Truly I have. That's why I don't judge others' dog (or family) decisions. It's $$##**HAAARRRRD!**##$$!!!!!!
I feel you!
I have this quote by Philo of Alexandria (spelling?) on my frig...
"Be Kind. For everyone you meet is fighting a great battle."
That's the God's Honest Truth.
Zippy will find the right place and you will get past this. You will.
HUGS!
Spouses vs. dogs. I've seen it happen before. It sounds like you're doing the right things for you and your family. If it were a kid, they'd send you to family counseling, but I don't think they have dog-family counseling. Huh--there's a niche that's waiting to be filled.
-ellen
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